If you don’t know who you are, you need to redefine yourself into what you see yourself being. What do you imagine yourself as, in an ideal world? Who is this ideal person and what does he do? What sorts of friends does he have? Answer these questions, then start living the type of life that this person would lead, one step at a time. It will take years, but it’s the only way. Good luck.

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